People will always tell you that you're not pretty enough or thin enough or rich enough or smart enough, you're not doing something or anything right, your choice of a date or a boyfriend or a life partner is not cute or handsome or stable or kind or trustworthy or good enough, and they will always try to change the way you walk or talk or dress, and they would pretend that it's all for your own sake, or maybe they'll use the freedom of speech excuse. Lame.
And when you change from a person you were to the person you are now, they freak out and say change is not good. Oh, contradictions. Makes me wonder if they ever knew what they wanted for themselves if their opinions change as fast as the wind when it rains with thunders and storms.
Everyone is blessed with the faculty of reason, but some are just too fast to blurt out eveything they have in mind without thinking.
"No." If you're not bothering anyone or whatever you do isn't making another person miserable or ruining another man's life, then that is the word you should say.
No. Never. No.
